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  they are going to DF me

  by Found Sheep in

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  just had 2 elders invite me to my judicial meeding about my marriage of two years.

  they think my husband was not legaly divorced.

  but he was and i had 3 lawyers tell me he was.

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  troubled mind

  IT is VERY important you do not attend the JC ,since you have already been inactive a year, if you now bow to their invitation it shows to them that you still look to them as authority over you !!!

  Get a letter from your lawyer stating you are in fact legally married . Send it certified to the body of Elders . If it were me I would also send along a note telling them any future discussion of the matter would be considered slander by you.They would not want their names drawn into a law suit ,however you will do what it takes ....
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  I Miss Field Service!

  by believingxjw in

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  yep, i miss those good old field service days but now i'm not allowed to join in the house to house work.

  so i've decided to do what i was taught to do instead; letter writing.. i'm going to take the money i once contributed to the kingdom hall and buy stamps with it.

  then i'll give a good witness to many in my area or in my state or across the country.

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  troubled mind

  You could start going door to door selling Avon . Between houses stop in at the local gas station for a donut and cup of coffee !
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  Friday Fun Post

  by OnTheWayOut in

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  post something just for fun on friday:.

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  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uky82loh9n0&feature=related.

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  troubled mind

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z3xd8bXlzeU
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  Oompa

  by palmtree67 in

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  he was in a very bad motorcycle accident on tuesday and is in the icu.. i think we could all send our oompa good vibes, prayers and healing angels.. .

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  troubled mind

  Oompa , Hope you are feeling better soon !
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  Is this weird or what?

  by 1Robinella in

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  the other day i was on the phone with my mother.

  she lives about 20 minutes from the rest of the family.

  she'll be 73 in november.

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  troubled mind

  What you said was exactly right ......your a very loving daughter . It must have hurt to hear her say that ,but ....she was just venting her unhappiness that you are no longer a JW .

  It is sad because when the time comes that she needs that type of care the Brothers and Sisters WILL NOT be as she thinks . I have heard Elders tell family that their faithful Elderly ones WERE their responsibility not the congregations . For yrs my Mom helped take single sisters and sisters with UBM to conventions .When she became disabled no one could be bothered to help her .
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  Latest SAD--More Higher Ed Bashing. Did you know it's one of Satan's False Refuges?

  by Cadellin in

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  well, folks, this little mermaid just got back from the sad she had to attend w/her husband so as to keep a measure of peace (we're in the process of working out compromises...you know how it goes) i was pretty mad by the end of the day (thank god it ended at 4:00) mostly because i learned some new things that i would never have guessed in a million years.. did you know that satan is setting up artificial "refuges" as a counterfeit to jehovah's "true refuge"which is...his organization???

  now satan's "false refuges" are pretty damn bad, like, for instance, "independent thinking.

  " no, siree bob, we don't want none of that!!

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  troubled mind

  One of the last assemblies I went to had a experience given by a young man that gave up his scholarship to Pioneer . Because that is the BEST way of life . I literally wanted to stand up and SCREAM !!! Then in our own hall a young woman that had been an honor student went and did the same thing following the 'good example' set before her ......

  Several of the young ones since then have at least gone to two yr college programs or gotten through certificate programs .

  I really felt sorry one young woman in our hall .She was determined to become a Physical Therapist and it takes a little over four yrs of school and clinicals . I heard the Elders trying to discourage her all the time she was going to school ! Parts on the local needs were directed to discredit long college degrees . She was ridiculed for her dating and clothing anything to pick on her IMO....She toughed it out got her education and now has a good job . Bet the Elders are glad now she can contribute more because of that extra money ! .........The sad thing is she is completely hardened into making sure she is a super dub ,maybe just to prove them wrong ,IDK ......I had hoped she would have woken up after all that she went through .
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  I HATE this religion

  by brotherdan in

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  so today was my first sunday meeting that i didn't go with my wife.

  as an update she has decided not to move out right now...because she doesn't have anywhere to go.

  but she is giving me the silent treatment.

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  troubled mind

  ZOIKS has the correct answer IMHO .

  You are underestimating your 5 yr old Brotherdan . He comprehends way more than you think otherwise he would not be asking you so intently . He is asking because he IS troubled . I remember being 5 and knowing my unbeleiving Dad was bad for not going to meetings ! And anxious and worried about him dying . You need to give a clear answer so he understands it is not something he had any control over, and that you having a different belief than Mom is okay too.

  Don't let them (those at the hall and the stuff he hears from the stage ) be the only thoughts he learns to think about in the new family situation .

  Zoiks has an excellant reply for a child that age ,it allows them to learn we all have free choices to make . Choices do not make anyone bad or better just different .

  At his age your reassurance will have to be repeated often ! Count on it . You may have to explain to him many times because I guarantee he is going to hear otherwise a multitude of times at the hall and from your wife .
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  Do any of you Draw or make things?

  by BlackTwisted in

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  well, the title speaks for itself.. .

  i draw sometimes, but most of the time, i make things from different makers, like this one.

  sailor moon maker: www.divine.com/sailor.html.

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  troubled mind

  LisaRose please pm your website address to me . I would be interested in seeing your project ideas !
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  Do any of you Draw or make things?

  by BlackTwisted in

  1. watchtower
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  well, the title speaks for itself.. .

  i draw sometimes, but most of the time, i make things from different makers, like this one.

  sailor moon maker: www.divine.com/sailor.html.

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  troubled mind

  I have always liked to draw and make things . When my kids were little I did wood crafts and country /primative painting . Then about twelve yrs ago I really got involved in Photography . I did weddings and Senior pics and such . Had a good business going for about five yrs ,but when I left the Witnesses I just lost interest in starting a new client base . So now I just do Photography for friends and for fun .

  I am the most happiest when I am creating something . Right now I am looking for ideas to make something I can sell . My husband keeps telling me to make calendars or post cards of some of my nature pictures . I just have not found a good way to make it profitable .....

  Anyone out here with any ideas I would appreciate suggestions !!
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  Oh no! You cursed!

  by bottleofwater in

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  have any of you met witnesses who thought that crap or ass is a curse word?

  any other words?.

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  troubled mind

  I was counseled for using the word fart .......a sister was offended because in the south she said that was considered a naughty word